No matter what part of the US you are from, life in Nicaragua will be a lot different from what you are used to. Staying with a family is an excellent way to experience this difference.
Nicaraguan families are generally larger and more closely knitted than American families. Nicaraguan men are generally heads of the household. This has to do with machismo, which is not necessarily a negative cultural attitude but a cultural norm for many places in Latin America. Nicaraguans are very hospitable and you can expect your hosts to treat you as part of the family. Of course, this comes with the responsibility to reciprocate respect, and kindness. Living with strangers that speak your language and are of the same culture as you is difficult. Even more difficult is living with strangers in a foreign country who don’t speak your language. Just remember, a smile is the same in every language.
The house itself might be equipped with fewer luxuries than you are used to at home. Most homes do not have hot water, but because it’s hot all the time, you don’t really need it. At times during the day there will be no water in the house, due to town or even country-wide shortages. Most houses have tanks to store water in for this occasion, and some have wells. Also, due to scheduled or unscheduled power outages there will be times when there is no electricity. Generally this will be during the day, but you are advised to bring a flashlight for when this happens at night. All families have either candles or rechargeable lamps to use during these times.
Your room will be equipped with a fan and maybe a mosquito net. The fan helps keep you cool at night (sleeping without one is almost impossible) and also keeps the bugs off. The mosquito net provides additional protection from insects, which are more plentiful in the rainy season (May-December). Most people sleep with a fan but without a mosquito net.
One of the favorite pastimes all over Nicaragua is sitting on the porch. Many houses have rocking chairs just for this purpose. Join your family on the porch with all the neighbors and friends to chat about town rumors, news, and events. Also, feel free to help your family with chores around the house. This is a good way to earn respect and give back for the hospitality.
You might find that the family does not take their meals with you. It is common for people to eat separately in Nicaragua and your family might be trying to give you extra privacy. If you would like them to eat with you, ask when they take their meals and ask if you may take them at the same time.
Communication is key in a homestay. Tell your family what time you like to eat, what you like to eat, what is going well and what needs to be changed. If something is off, it is most likely because of a miscommunication or a lack of understanding. CC staff can help you communicate with your family as well.
Your family will respect your privacy and you should respect their house. While it is perfectly fine to go out at night and come back late, as long as you aren’t partying in the house at 2 am, it is not appropriate to bring home guests after 9 or 10pm. While it is fine to drink alcohol, it is not appropriate to be drunk in the house. Remember, you are representing your country and, whether you want to or not, you are a role model for local youths. Act accordingly.